"Be the change you want to see in the world."
-Mahatma Gandhi
It's true. I watched a movie (well my mom made me watch it) about women and their connection in the media and society. It is a very
confusing and multi dimensional conflict. There are so many parts to it
that affect how we are portrayed, and how young girls perceive the
women they see on TV. Everything is so based on looks; your body, face,
hair, weight, age. Less than half of the women on TV today are 40 years
old or older. It's not a real woman girls see on TV anymore, it's a
doll. Plastic. Make believe. I just think it's outrageous the things
that people do to be the image they see on a magazine, or be that person
they look up to on their favorite TV show.
The other thing they
discussed in the movie, was the fact that there are barely any powerful,
amazing women in our society anymore. The ones that we do recognize
just get shit for how they look, what they say, or even something as
simple as being a woman. They showed a clip of Hilary
Clinton speaking, and on the side of the crowd there were a group of
people, men, that shouted at her "Iron my shirt!" repeatedly. She
actually had to pause what she was saying to stare, in awe, of what
these people were doing. But the most important thing is that she went
on. Despite the nasty things people (mostly men) say about the women
that so many people look up to, these women persevere and continue to
fight for what they believe in.
There are even more obscene parts
to the role of women in this society. But the most important message
coming from everything the film talked about, is to stand up. No matter
what it is you do, say, or even NOT do, you are the change that you want
to see. It starts here: boycotting tabloids, watching movies directed
by women, being a leader in your community. What you do everyday
matters, and it shows that we can rise against the image of the perfect
woman (size 00 with flawless skin and perfect hair!). Do you want to see
another girl cut the skin on her arm, or stop eating to achieve what
society has made them? It's not fair that my generation has already had
to live with this, but together, we can change that.
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